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Anonymous asked: I'm still struggling if I'm aro/ace or sexphobic and low self-esteem. I'm a girl, so I waited for people to come to me, because that's what girls do, right? But I never got asked on a date in high school or college (barring one guy who's friends locked him in a car until he agreed to ask me) so I just... Assumed I was undesirable. Convinced myself I... Shouldn't be loved? Don't deserve it? I can't tell if I have no interest or if I'm just too afraid. -M

punishandenslavesuckers:

Love is is a complicated thing isn’t it? If you want love and can give love then you deserve it. Romantic love is a certain kind of love, but I’d argue it’s in no way superior to other kinds of affection out there. If it’s the type you want, then you absolutely deserve it.

I can tell you this though. 

Your self worth should absolutely not be reliant on whether boys find you desirable. It’s also okay not to be 100% sure. I’m in my mid-twenties and I’m pretty goddamn sure I’m ace and I’m just so unfathomably disinterested in romantic relationships, but I also know that could change. sexuality and romantic inclinations are fluid and it’s okay to be a bit wibblywobbly on the subject. 

Telling you not to be afraid would be silly because relationships are complicated and scary, but if you’re not sure and it means a lot to you then it’s worth it to give it shot. You deserve to be happy. 

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angelshizuka:

Brother Bear Appreciation Week

Day 3: Favourite Quotes

LET ME TELL YOU WHY THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT, UNDERRATED DISNEY FILMS OF ALL TIME OKAY:

1. It teaches kids that we should never judge others by their appearance or what we’ve seen on the surface.

2. It teaches kids that despite if we’ve been taught to be afraid of or hate something or someone that looks/acts differently than us, we should learn and try to understand them before we judge them.

3. It teaches that two sides that may hate each other don’t always have to stay that way - they can learn and grown from each other’s mistakes.

4. It teaches that hatred is not always the answer; to listen, to step back, and see through someone else’s eyes. It teaches patience, understanding, and wisdom.

5. IT TEACHES CHILDREN THAT PEOPLE CAN BE FORGIVEN AND DO BETTER.

6. It teaches children that even if you make a mistake, you can learn and grow from it like Kenai.

Seriously I just love this movie to pieces it is so important to me and I wish more people knew/watched it because wtf it’s AMAZING.

NOT TO MENTION THE ENTIRE CAST IS POC AND CULTURE WISE IT IS RESPECTFUL AND IT IS JUST A GREAT MOVIE OKAY

(Source: AngelShizuka, via theoncomingchibi)

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